Fighting the Isolation of Illness

The isolation of illness is real.  Not only because you don’t feel well enough to go out in public, but because some treatments suppress a patient’s immune system, making it physically unsafe for them to be around large crowds and even family and friends. Every time I was

The Perfect Assist

The assist is one of the most important and underappreciated stats in sports. It’s the largest contributor to scoring, and without assists, the games would not be as productive or compelling. Whether it’s a volleyball player setting the ball for a kill by a hitter or a point

Defining Bravery

You are so brave. I’ve realized over the years that those four words grate on the nerves of many cancer patients. I’m always up for a compliment, so I wasn’t quite sure why others were bothered by the phrase. Their explanation: “I’m not brave, I’m

Random Acts of Kindness

November 27, 2013 — I was at a coffee shop this morning when I heard the man next to me say "Use it to pay for the next person who walks in and tell them Happy Turkey Day from anonymous!" I looked over and saw extra cash sitting on

Life After Cancer

Even if you achieve remission from cancer, the worry often lingers. In two months, I will celebrate five years since my stem cell transplant, five years leukemia-free. Five years is a major milestone in cancer terms; some even consider it to signify that you are cured. I will celebrate October

You Made a Difference for Julie

Meet Julie Kerbaugh, one of the patients in the Side-Out Protocol, the pilot study funded entirely by volleyball. Julie and the other patients who benefit from the research Side-Out supports are the reason we Dig Pink! New pilot study at Scottsdale Healthcare gives cancer patient hope

Celebrating Life

Simple joys make every day special. Fireflies, a really good cup of coffee, your favorite song, an evening walk, reading a book in bed, marveling at the stars...the list is truly endless! This Sunday on National Cancer Survivors Day, I plan on playing with my two dogs, soaking up

Dealing With Fear

The below story was read at the 2012 Capitol Hill Classic. Boxer and actor Randall “Tex” Cobb once said “Courage isn't the absence of fear; it's the dealing with it.” Fear has the potential to motivate and encourage you, something Julie Matthews understands well. Julie is

The Strength of Teams

When Matt Mullikin (IMG College) and Robin Bordleon (Sun Belt Conference) asked me to be the keynote speaker at their 2010 Sun Belt Conference banquet I must say I was hesitant. In fact, I was terrified. I thought to myself, "what message can I give them that will have

The Other Shoe

“I will recover fully, I will stay in remission, and I will live a normal life.” I created and recited this mantra throughout my treatment for acute myelogenous leukemia (AML). Well, to be more specific, throughout my second go-round with leukemia. After three and a half years in remission, I

Dating After Cancer

I recently joined an on-line dating service. I’m 32, I’m decent looking, I have a job I enjoy and family and friends I love. My motto is “go with the flow”…well, more specifically, my e-mail tagline is “When you come to a fork in the road, take